Cold Feet


Overcoming Cold Feet; Salt Lake City Weddings


I have seen dozens of close friends get nervous before their wedding. Occasionally this leads to calling off a wedding. For anyone who is getting married I promise this is valuable information. Cold feet should not lead to a break up.
What is “cold feet”?
When you hear the term “cold feet” usually someone is referring to the last minute jitters that are common to have before a wedding.  I have seen this happen before Salt Lake Weddings on occasion. Sometimes cold feet can bring feelings of fear, nervousness and even thoughts like “am I really making the right decision”.
It is important to note that it is normal to have cold feet. Spending the rest of your life with someone is a huge decision. It is natural to second guess big decisions. It is also important to note that having “cold feet” and feeling like you are making the wrong decision are two different things. It is important to follow your heart but don’t let your mind play tricks on you.
How to know if you are having cold feet or if you shouldn’t get married
First off I will say that if you are approaching the day of your wedding, these doubts are almost always cold feet. Cold feet thoughts come at the last minute or the last few weeks. Real doubts are in our minds all along. If you have not felt right about the wedding since you were engaged then you should take these thoughts more seriously.
How to overcome cold feet
Cold feet thoughts usually come while you are alone or away from your future spouse. How you feel when you are with your future spouse is very important. Our minds often play tricks on us when we are stressed and alone. Think about how you feel when you are spending time with your future companion.
As you approach your wedding spend quality time with your soon to be spouse. It is very common for busy schedules to take over our lives. As you are approaching your Wedding in Salt Lake City it is more important than ever to go on dates and spend quality time together.
Planning for your wedding event so you need to make sure you spend time doing other things. Make sure the wedding isn’t the topic of every conversation. If all you talk about is wedding planning you have much higher chances of being stressed.
Prayer
Prayer is one of the best ways to recognize if you are just getting cold feet jitters. If you are having a hard time knowing if you are making the right decision it is time to hit your knees. Prayer is the best way to receive answers to difficult questions. Pray often about your fiancée and the Lord will help you. Enjoy your wedding and continue moving forward.


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